Every traumatic situation can leave deep marks from which it can be very hard to recover. A survivor of rape or assault will have to deal with several psychological difficulties such as Depression and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Victim’s romantic partners play the most important role in their recovery and must be very careful to behave according to her needs.
It is important to respect her time and never force her to talk about what happened. Instead, wait for her to be ready and, when she is, listen in a positive way that makes her feel comfort. It is common that rape victims feel guilt and partners must emphasize that they do not agree with that. Never argue with her. Console her and make sure to tell her that it is not her fault.
After she is able to talk, the next step should be taken. It will be time to go back to the normal life. In this phase, she will need support, but she does not need to be treated with pity. It is not uncommon to suffer from relapses or recurrences. She may feel lack of strength and depression. Do not consider this as a step back. Help her go through it maintaining calm and supportive, always listening to what she wants to say.
Recovery is a long process and the victim’s partner must always be there for her. Make sure to be serene and not to blame the victim. Following these steps, you will both be in the right path to live happy again.