As a survivor of sexual assault and a mother to daughters, I feel a deep responsibility to pass on my knowledge and experiences to the next generation. I want my daughters to know that they are never to blame for someone else’s actions and that they have the power to protect themselves and stand up for their rights. Here are some lessons that I hope to instill in my daughters:
It’s never your fault. No matter what you were wearing, where you were, or who you were with, sexual assault is never your fault. It is always the responsibility of the perpetrator to obtain clear and informed consent.
Trust your instincts. If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your gut and remove yourself from the situation. Don’t worry about offending someone or causing a scene. Your safety and well-being are always the top priority.
Communication is key. Be clear and assertive in communicating your boundaries and expectations. If someone crosses those boundaries, it is important to speak up and let them know that their behavior is not acceptable.
Self-defense is important. Taking self-defense classes or learning basic techniques can give you the confidence and skills to protect yourself in potentially dangerous situations.
Support is available. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, there are resources available to help. This can include counseling, medical care, legal support, and advocacy services. Never hesitate to seek help if you need it.
As a survivor and mother, I know that passing on this knowledge and empowering our daughters is essential in combating sexual assault. We need to continue to raise awareness and advocate for policy change, but also to educate and support the next generation of women to stand up for themselves and each other. Together, we can create a world where sexual assault is no longer tolerated and all women can live their lives free from fear and violence.
